Sunday, May 22, 2016

Communion and the stirring of memory

What do your communion practices say about your community?

My father-in-law is dying of cancer, and we’ve been taking rotations in the hospital to keep vigil. As I type, I’m sitting across from my spouse as my father-in-law sleeps. This afternoon has been quiet.

But the question on what communion shows us and tells us has been resonating deeply with me today. I was struck by this question today as my spouse’s family gathered together in the hospital room. We entered into the afternoon hours when a family friend, who is also a phenomenal pastor, came to commune the family. We stood in a circle around my father-in-law’s bed and heard the words of death and resurrection, and that the risen Christ comes to meet us in this simple meal. We partook of the risen Christ’s body and blood on this Trinity Sunday, this Sunday that can go beyond the confines of doctrine and proclaim a God of deep and abiding relationship. We wept as we communed together, that we weren’t united just as a family, but as the body of a resurrected Christ and partaking in this meal with the communion of saints. We were met by the risen Christ who meets us in death and life.

Thoughts on life and death can stir one’s memory. The question of communion practices also made my mind wander... back to the practices of my internship parish and first call. The people of my internship and first call concluded the meal by pouring all of the wine back into the chalice and having the pastor and assisting minister finish the wine out of the chalice. When I first arrived to the congregation in 2011, I simply thought that this was a good practice of treating the elements with reverence and respect. It was later in my internship that the drinking of the wine at the end of the meal communicated something else along with the reverence of treating the elements.

In the 1980s, the people of the congregation created an HIV/ AIDS Task Force. So many in the Bay area were dying in this epidemic. The church held services of healing that were picketed. They flung open their doors as a place of welcome for people who were being turned away by their families and institutions, who were stigmatized, and who were dying. The Task Force also visited patients at the AIDS ward at one of the Easy Bay hospitals (and that ministry continues to this day). Members of the community that had nursing and medical experience became caretakers for their fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.

This ministry was also brought into the sanctuary into weekly worship. The senior pastor I served with was a solo pastor at that time. He wanted to communicate that this welcome was a serious welcome that did not come with any conditions, and this was communicated at the Eucharist. 

The consecrated wine imbibed by congregants on every end of a multitude of binaries was poured into a chalice at the conclusion of communion. The pastor then drank the wine, communicating to the congregation that HIV/ AIDS could not be transmitted in the sharing of the meal. The gathering of the body of Christ also communicated that death does not have the final say over our lives.

Communion is a powerful sacrament that can communicate so many things. What we do at communion can also communicate something powerful to the body of Christ.

The body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ strengthen you and keep you in his grace.

Amen.